PREGNANT!

[Venom]

kids require a lot of love, responsibility, support ( your parents ), and money ...


My girlfriend has a kid, and I've helped raised him for the last 3 and a half years .... he is 7 now, and I can tell you they get more and more expensive.

as much as you don't think so, or expect to, but your parents will be a huge part of caring for your baby ... emotionally ... and financially

they didn't choose this life style they are about to inherit ...

i don't go out much anymore

i have to wake up early every day to get him showered and fed and ready for school ... or feed him and entertain him. make sure he has everything he needs to live comfortably .....


expect to grow up very fast ...


you will feel like you are giving up your adolescence, for parent hood ... and you are. but it's part of having kids ...



I'm 31, I have a career, I am responsible, I've gotten my adolescence days behind me ... raising a child is very exhausting, includes many sacrifices .... but very rewarding in the long run


you give up a lot, but you gain so much more as the years go by, from the day you bring life into the world .... through the years you watch them grow ...


best of luck to you ...

[puppet]

[RuLeS]

congrats lizzie!

stay healthy and be strong!

how old are you btw?

i got my first baby when i was 18 and i have no job. no support from my parents. i have nothing!
i just pray and try and try and try to get things better! i want to prove it to my parent that i can do it and i dont give up!
abortion is not a good idea! keep it and love it! when the first time you hug your baby you will realize that your baby is your life!!! GL!

[Poody]

What ever you decied to do I hope it all works out for the best. I am 27 years old and my GF and I are expecting a baby on christmas day. I sure do hope that things work out ok for you and even thought we have never met if you ever need to vent to someone or ask anything you can PM for for sure! I have had 3 of my ex gf's go thru abortions and been there with them thru it all. Good luck with everything

[mrbruin]

Stay away from smoke/drink

Hope you can have a healthy baby!!

[LizziePie]

ya venom sorry im not reading that essay of yours LOL plus as i stated before im not keeping the kid but any ways i went to a specialist today and omg my personal bubble has now been popped! i was going to wait till i was 20 to get a pap smear but hey got it early nothing to brighten your day like some metal and finger invading ur private areas but to answer the age question i turn 18 soon (for my own safety wont say when) but my baby is too small to hear a heart beat and on 11/10 i will be going back in to get to see the baby... still doesn't feel like i am pregers! i have only got morning sickness when i dont eat right after waking up and dont get sick during the day. i pee like crazy tho (not so fun i feel like im old!) and dont get much sleep as i would like and sleep lost its amazingness but the doc listened and checked my size and i am about 8-10 weeks (personally i go with 10 or 11 weeks) i will know for sure on the 10th and will also know about when i will be having this sucker. but i do have a warning for the family.. this kid WILL be a tough kid i mean hell look is having it but little warning for u guys now that the emotions will start kicking in and my bubble has been popped mean jokes will be flying like never before so dont take them personal! love you guys and as puppet knows i will be in the wraith servers (im admin there now ) so come get ur butts kick i do it for free

(smoking is no problem to stay away from and i avoid my friends that drink so no worries bruin)

ill post pics on the 10th of the baby and let you all know the gender (pray for the adoption family its not a boy he WOULD be the spawn of satin )

[mrbruin]

It's great to hear that ur doing well!!

Can't wait to see your baby!

[LizziePie]

ya but i got munchies like no other! sheeeeeesh feel like im high with the munchies and can't stop eating! my dad blames it on being pregnant i blame it on becoming FAT

[uopuejq]

What is your little thing's gender Lizz?

[LizziePie]

boy